How can I cope with the student lifestyle?
For most people, studying is a time where they socialise with a wide range of people and have many new experiences. While this can be positive, it can also feel overwhelming.
You might feel like there is a lot of pressure to do well academically, as well as pressure to be sociable. Try to build up strategies to manage stress before it gets too much, so it is easier to respond to additional pressure, such as during exam time.
- Try using a planner to keep track of deadlines and key commitments and organise your study
- Take time out to relax. Getting away from your desk, even for short periods of time, can help keep you calm
- Keep an eye on the number of social commitments you have to avoid overloading your schedule around deadlines and exams
Looking after your physical health
Looking after your physical health will help you stay healthy and maintain concentration to study well.
- Get good sleep. If you are tired, your worries can get blown out of proportion. Getting into a regular sleep routine can help you stay on top of university life
- Eat a healthy diet. Eating a balanced and nutritious diet can help you feel well and think clearly
- Exercise regularly. Keeping active can help you improve your mental health, even if it’s through gentle exercise, such as yoga
“Tiredness is one of the biggest problems with the student lifestyle and it contribute significantly to my mood. I feel more emotional and less capable when I am tired”
Managing drugs and alcohol
While alcohol is often associated with the student lifestyle, you do not have to drink if you do not want to. Most Students’ Unions offer a range of social events and activities that are alcohol-free. Remember:
- Alcohol can worsen depression and cause other health problems
- Try to ensure you have some days without drinking
- Be careful if you are taking medication, as it is usually recommended to not drink while taking it
Illegal drugs can also have a serious impact on your mental health.
Living with other students
If you have moved away from home, it is likely that at some point you will have to organise your own housing. You may not always feel you have a lot of choice, but you could think about if you want to live:
- With people who you can talk to about your mental health
- With a smaller number of people, perhaps in a smaller house
- Closer to campus or somewhere with better transport options
- Near shops and amenities to make it easier to be sociable
- Somewhere quiet with more privacy
Renting a house or flat for the first time is a big deal, but there is plenty of advice and support out there. Check with your university’s or college’s Students’ Union to see if they provide advice about accommodation, managing landlords and signing contracts.
Meeting new people
Being around so many other students creates a great opportunity to meet like- minded people. If you are finding it hard to meet new people, remember many other students will feel the same way. Here are some suggestions to help you get started:
- Volunteering can help you meet people who share an interest with you. Your Students’ Union may be able to help you do this
- Clubs or societies can be a great way to get to know people and create a work-life balance. See what’s on offer at the fresher’s fair or, if you missed this, you can find out from your Students’ Union at any time
- Course forums or email groups can keep you connected if you are studying online. Getting to know people online can also make it easier if the course has events like study weekends where you will all meet
“I don’t have the usual student lifestyle because I know that would make me ill. Open University is great for people like me for that reason”
Lots of students feel lonely, especially with the influence of social media, as social media can give the impression that all of your friends are hanging out together and having the best time. This comparison can make you feel lonelier, and loneliness can have a big impact on your mental health.
- Take social media with a pinch of salt, as people usually only post photos of the positive times on social media, giving a false impression of how great things are
- Even if you are shy, remember your peers are often in the same situation and appreciate you talking to them
Perhaps you could:
- Talk to someone, or just say hello, before and after each lecture or class
- Meet classmates in the library to plan a joint piece of work chat to people you are living with while making food in a shared kitchen
- Try peer support. There might be groups at your university or college specifically for students who are experiencing mental health problems