A few years ago, I was trying so hard to change into a new field. I pushed myself to learn as much as I could, but deep down I was always doubting myself, wondering if I really belonged, or if I would ever be “good enough.” Every setback felt heavy, and the more effort I put in, the more I questioned whether I was moving forward at all.
What made a real difference was having a close friend who supported me in just the right way. She didn’t flood me with advice or pressure me to “get over it.” Instead, she listened patiently, reminded me that it was okay to take things step by step, and encouraged me to notice the progress I had already made. Sometimes it was something small, like a text message or suggesting we go for a walk when I was stuck in my own head, but those moments helped me steady myself and keep going.
Looking back now, I can see how that time changed me. I realised that self-doubt is natural when we step into something new, but it doesn’t have to define us. Having someone who believed in me when I couldn’t believe in myself reminded me of the importance of connection and compassion. That experience taught me to be gentler with myself, and it still gives me courage whenever I face new challenges today.